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Diary of a CEO · 2025-12-29 · 2h 27m

Chris Williamson: Fix This One Habit And 2026 Will Be Your Best Year!

Chris Williamson on designing realistic New Year goals, habit consistency, and the lonely cost of self-improvement, plus his brutal year battling mold illness.

Chris Williamson: Fix This One Habit And 2026 Will Be Your Best Year!
The guest

Chris Williamson — British podcaster and host of Modern Wisdom, one of the world's biggest podcasts and a former nightclub promoter turned personal-development thinker now based in the US.

The gist

Steven Bartlett and Chris Williamson use the week between Christmas and New Year as a frame to discuss how to set and keep goals that actually stick. They cover why subtraction matters more than addition (you must put something down to pick something up), habit rules like 'never miss two days in a row,' productivity dysmorphia, procrastination, and the region beta paradox. The conversation widens into dating advice, what makes a good man, declining birth rates, and the 'lonely chapter' of personal growth. It closes with Williamson's candid account of a debilitating year of mold poisoning that wrecked his energy, mood, and memory, and how it humbled him into valuing small pleasures.

Big reveals

  • Williamson says drinking three glasses of wine after a year sober ruined three days of his life via a domino effect on sleep, diet, and training.
  • Recounts quitting Social Chain 10 days before its IPO roadshow with no plan B, despite the company later being worth 400-500 million.
  • Says it took him until two or three years ago to stop being scared of having a family.
  • Hints he is doing 'everything in my power' to have kids soon and expects to be a dad within 12 months.
  • Admits he has to work hard just to be in a good mood and previously had depression and anxiety in his 20s.
  • Reveals he got mold poisoning from a toxic-mold house in America that impaired his energy, mood, and cognition.
  • Describes a day he forgot how to tie his shoes and was forgetting friends' names due to the illness.
  • Says 'this year has definitely broken me' and rates himself a 7-8 now versus a 3 a year ago.

Things worth remembering

  • Only about 9% of people keep their New Year's resolution for the full year; roughly half quit by end of January.
  • James Clear's rule 'never miss two days in a row' - one missed day is an error, two is the start of a new habit.
  • A 10-minute 'postprandial' walk after meals regulates glucose and aids digestion via contralateral arm-leg movement.
  • No caffeine within 90 minutes of waking because the adrenal system, not adenosine, dominates the first 90 minutes.
  • 'Productivity dysmorphia' - the inability to see your own success, sitting between burnout, imposter syndrome, and anxiety.
  • Williamson invokes Ryan Holiday: 'Self-belief is overrated. Generate evidence.'
  • South Korea's birth rate is so low that about 4 great-grandchildren result per 100 people; K-pop celibacy rules cited as a cultural factor.
  • In Georgia a rock-star pastor offered to personally baptize any family's third child, spurring couples to have more kids.
  • Williamson's 'dropped handkerchief' update: NYC women steal finance bros' salads to find their Instagram and message them.
  • The 'shame of small fears' - our nervous system has been repurposed 'from bears to boundaries' and can't tell the difference.

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RecommendedBook

Atomic Habits

James Clear

“James Cle has been on my show. I think he's been on your show too. Uh best habit book of all time, Atomic Habits.” — Chris Williamson 00:44:37
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RecommendedBook

Getting Things Done

David Allen

“People want a really really great productivity strategy. Getting things done by David Allen is is about as good as you can get.” — Chris Williamson 00:54:24
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