Ramit Sethi — Personal finance expert, entrepreneur, and host of the Money for Couples podcast and a Netflix show. Author of the seven-figure bestseller I Will Teach You to Be Rich and the book Money for Couples.
The gist
Ramit Sethi returns to The Diary Of A CEO to break down how couples sabotage themselves with money and how to fix it. He lays out his four money types (avoider, optimizer, worrier, dreamer), argues that feelings about money are uncorrelated with bank balance, and explains his conscious spending plan with four target percentages. He makes a contrarian case that renting plus investing the difference often beats buying a house, and that a primary home is rarely a good investment. He also covers prenups, merging finances, dropping the percentage-fee 'money guy', and how to raise kids who aren't spoiled or anxious about money.
Big reveals
- Claims 50% of people he talks to don't know their household income and 90% in debt don't know how much they owe.
- Says asking to split the bill on a first date is a red flag and an 'ick' for many women.
- Reveals he rented by choice for 20 years and made more money renting and investing the difference than buying.
- Sets out to 'dismantle' the renting-is-throwing-money-away argument once and for all.
- Drops the shocking math that most 30-year mortgages pay more toward interest than principal until year 21.
- Steven admits he knowingly bought his first house as a bad financial decision because it was emotional.
- Says couples have broken up directly after appearing on his podcast over money.
- Recounts a couple in Kansas whose daughter got free school food despite a $130k income because parents kept saying 'we can't afford it'.
Things worth remembering
- Describes a woman earning $200,000 a month whose boyfriend made a few thousand, creating money-dynamic tension.
- A 1% assets-under-management fee can cost roughly 28% of your lifetime investment returns.
- Robert Kiyosaki once said the best investment is a can of tuna; Ramit joked he bought 3 million cans.
- In the top 50 US metro cities it is currently cheaper to rent than to buy.
- Conscious spending plan targets: 50-60% fixed costs, 5-10% savings, 5-10% investments, 20-35% guilt-free spending.
- You can invest simply with a single target-date fund and automatic monthly contributions, no stock picking.
- Ramit's dad opened him a custodial account at 14 and he has invested every month since, almost never selling.
- Research he cites shows couples actually fight about kids, chores, and communication more than money itself.
- Disputes the famous $75,000 happiness number; newer research suggests happiness keeps rising with income.
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I Will Teach You to Be Rich
Ramit Sethi
“I said well there is a book called I will teach you to be rich here's a copy of it and I was joking around with her” — Ramit Sethi 00:30:35Find it on Amazon
Money for Couples
Ramit Sethi
“when I saw that you'd written a book about money for couples it immediately made me realize I go Chris we've never talked about that” — Steven Bartlett 01:46:23Find it on Amazon