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Diary of a CEO · 2023-04-17 · 1h 42m

800k Q&A - Diary Of A CEO, Iman Gadzhi & Body Positivity

Chris Williamson answers 800k-subscriber listener questions on dating, masculinity, depression, habits, and his podcast journey, aided by an AI 'Chrisbot'.

800k Q&A - Diary Of A CEO, Iman Gadzhi & Body Positivity
The guest

Chris Williamson — Host of the Modern Wisdom podcast, former club promoter and Love Island contestant turned long-form interviewer known for evolutionary-psychology and self-development conversations.

The gist

This is a solo 800,000-subscriber Q&A episode of Modern Wisdom (the supplied title is misattributed to Diary of a CEO, though that appearance is discussed) in which Chris Williamson works through listener questions from across his platforms. He covers his recent viral Diary of a CEO appearance and the backlash to its dating-market clips, his own anxiety and depression through his 20s, attachment style, and how growing scrutiny affects him as the channel approaches a million subscribers. Recurring threads include intersexual dynamics, why body positivity skews toward women, the manosphere as a coping mechanism, and high relationship expectations. Throughout, he tests an AI model trained on his episodes and blog posts ('Chrisbot') against his own answers, and closes by announcing a live tour and recommending books, products, and Substacks.

Big reveals

  • Chris reveals he secretly trained a language model ('Chrisbot') on 250 of his podcast episodes and every blog post he ever wrote.
  • Chrisbot's answer prompts a real decision: Chris commits to reaching out to Iman Gadzhi via a mutual friend to book him on the show.
  • Chris discloses he suffered with anxiety and depression, mostly depression, throughout his 20s, sometimes bed-bound for days at a time.
  • He says fixing his broken sleep pattern resolved a huge amount of his depression, which he had largely been mistaking for sleep deprivation.
  • Reflecting on his Diary of a CEO visit, he says watching Steven Bartlett's team convinced him to relinquish some control and delegate.
  • Chris breaks down his income sources: the podcast, UK rental properties, an S&P tracker ISA, and 'pennies' from Amazon affiliates.
  • He gives his core antidote to social anxiety: no one cares what you're doing, you barely exist in anyone else's universe.

Things worth remembering

  • Chris is a self-described 'complete Croc convert' and says his ideal two-shoe lineup is Crocs and Vans.
  • He is good friends with Zane Navratil, the current world number-three ranked men's pickleball player, who he calls 'unplayable'.
  • He argues morning coffee is pointless because the adenosine system isn't active in the first 90 minutes, preferring LMNT first thing.
  • The Stephen Shaw episode on population collapse was the conversation that most shifted his worldview in the past year.
  • He notes his rise was slow, taking half a decade and 600-plus episodes, contrasting with Brett Cooper hitting two million subs in a year.
  • Rather than buying a Rolex or sports car, he flew his whole team and friends to Vegas for a David Goggins trip with Cirque du Soleil.
  • He uses the Zeigarnik effect, leaving a sentence half-finished at day's end so it's easier to restart writing the next morning.
  • He cites research that life-satisfaction gains plateau around $70-80k, with each doubling beyond giving smaller returns.
  • The question he left for the next Diary of a CEO guest, borrowed from George Mack: what overlooked topic will historians study?
  • The Chrisbot was built by Zachary and Miguel from aiship.co.

Recommended in this episode

Books, products and media the guest or host genuinely endorsed here — with the buy link.

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The Kingkiller Chronicle

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“I love those first two books if you need a fantasy uh Duo it's fantastic I absolutely adore it” — Chris Williamson 00:20:09
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Essentialism

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“in terms of books to read um essentialism by Greg McEwen way of the superior man by uh David data Atomic Habits by James Clear” — Chris Williamson 01:00:33
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The Way of the Superior Man

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“way of the superior man by uh David data Atomic Habits by James Clear probably something to do with health and fitness” — Chris Williamson 01:00:33
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Atomic Habits

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“way of the superior man by uh David data Atomic Habits by James Clear probably something to do with health and fitness which would be great” — Chris Williamson 01:00:33
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“the Align method by Aaron Alexander Kelly starrett's new built to move Peter attia's new outlive” — Chris Williamson 01:01:04
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Outlive

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The Alchemist

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“The Alchemist by Paulo coella got like one and a half right Alchemist would probably be in there” — Chris Williamson 01:14:36
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The Ape That Understood the Universe

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“the April understood the universe by Steve Stuart Williams and hmm let's say the way of the superior man by David data” — Chris Williamson 01:14:36
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$100M Offers

Alex Hormozi

“homozy's books bloody hell read those and read 100 million dollar offers 100 million dollar deals which is going to be out soon” — Chris Williamson 01:35:15
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$100M Leads

Alex Hormozi

“read 100 million dollar offers 100 million dollar deals which is going to be out soon there you go” — Chris Williamson 01:35:15
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Crocs

Crocs

“I am a complete Croc convert as far as I can see they are pretty close to an elite type of Footwear” — Chris Williamson 00:15:29
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Vans

Vans

“The perfect two-car garage for me would be Crocs and vans comfy Kush vans so you know also for traveling in unbelievable” — Chris Williamson 00:15:59
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LMNT

“I take it daily because it is better for you on a morning than a coffee it optimizes your hydration and your appetite and your brain health” — Chris Williamson 01:38:52
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