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Tim Ferriss · 2021-12-22 · 1h 40m

Q&A with Tim — Tools for Better Sleep, Parenting, Fear, How to Boost Your Mood, and More

Tim Ferriss answers live and submitted Q&A on sleep, parenting, fear, mood, psychedelics, learning, and travel.

Q&A with Tim — Tools for Better Sleep, Parenting, Fear, How to Boost Your Mood, and More
The guest

Tim Ferriss — Author of The 4-Hour Workweek, The 4-Hour Body, and Tools of Titans, and host of The Tim Ferriss Show. This is a solo Q&A episode where he both asks and answers, fielding live-chat and pre-submitted listener questions.

The gist

In this fast-paced solo Q&A, Tim Ferriss alternates between live-chat and pre-submitted questions across a wide range of topics. He shares the sleep protocols he adopted from Andrew Huberman, his morning exercise-and-sunlight routine, and tools for tracking and improving sleep. He goes deep on psychedelic science, funding, and risk, on language-learning methods, the DSSS metalearning framework, and the principles he carries from chess. He also reflects on parenting, fear and resilience, mood regulation, wolf conservation, his move to Austin, and the books that have most shaped him.

Big reveals

  • Ferriss details the Huberman-inspired sleep stack he adopted: at least 1g EPA fish oil in divided doses, magnesium threonate and apigenin before bed, morning sunlight within minutes of waking, and delaying caffeine 60-90 minutes after rising.
  • Breaking news he inserted post-recording: Dr. Matthew Johnson at Johns Hopkins received a U01 grant from NIDA to study psilocybin for tobacco addiction, the first US government grant in half a century to directly study a classic psychedelic.
  • Asked what he'd teach his future kids, Ferriss says optimism and resilience, arguing that building confidence comes through competence and doing hard, uncomfortable things rather than reasoning your way into it.
  • On tempering low points, he discloses taking 5mg of low-dose lithium orotate (bought on Amazon) before bed, and 5mg in the morning if slipping, alongside exercise, sun, limiting caffeine, cutting alcohol, and cold exposure.
  • After moving from San Francisco to Austin, Ferriss says leaving a tech monoculture made him far more reflective, prompting big questions about family, mortality, and which of his drives are genuinely his own.
  • When asked what he just does willy-nilly, Ferriss admits he frequently says 'f it' to new things like learning to sail or jamming on new musical instruments, deliberately not applying his DSSS framework.
  • He names acro yoga as the single non-psychedelic somatic modality that created his largest positive shift, citing its effect on his relationship with his partner plus its blend of strength, mobility, and play.

Things worth remembering

  • Ferriss says his plantar fasciitis flared from walking in very minimal footwear on cobblestones, and improved partly after a physical therapist told him to stop crossing his feet under his chair and keep them flat.
  • He explains his DSSS metalearning framework from The 4-Hour Chef: Deconstruction, Selection (80/20), Sequencing, and Stakes, adding that 'material beats method.'
  • He claims you can reach conversational fluency in most languages in 8-12 weeks by learning the highest-frequency 1,200-2,000 words.
  • His language-maintenance trick, which a listener identifies as 'laddering,' uses the One Piece manga across languages, reading a known language to reinforce a target language page by page.
  • For anxiety and worry, he recommends Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach, Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, and How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie, citing the line 'worrying is like praying for what you don't want.'
  • He notes Adam Gazzaley's team developed software called Akili that became the first FDA-approved treatment for ADHD delivered as software.
  • His favorite wrestling movie is the documentary Dan Gable: Competitor Supreme, recounting Gable's near-undefeated record and 7-hours-a-day, 7-days-a-week training for a Munich Olympic gold.
  • He warns that 5-MeO-DMT, nicknamed 'the businessman's trip' for its 5-15 minute duration, is dramatically more destabilizing than its short length suggests.
  • A red Eye-of-Sauron-like painting he gets more compliments on than any other artwork was bought for $60 at a warehouse yard sale.
  • He ends by urging everyone to read Tim Urban's article 'The Tail End' on waitbutwhy.com, which he says he has read about 20 times and reproduced in one of his books.

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The 4-Hour Chef

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The Art of Learning

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Radical Acceptance

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“reading a book like Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach is incredibly helpful... I think that book is spectacular” — Tim Ferriss 00:56:27
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How to Change Your Mind

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“one first step there is to introduce them to How to Change Your Mind, the book by Michael Pollan. And if they're willing to read that” — Tim Ferriss 01:16:49
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The Black Swan

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“Antifragile, Fooled by Randomness, and The Black Swan... I found all of them to be very thought-provoking, and worth reading, and I don't say that lightly” — Tim Ferriss 01:19:25
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Fooled by Randomness

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Antifragile

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“Vision Quest is fantastic... It's pretty cheeseball, but fantastic movie. Loved it when I saw it” — Tim Ferriss 01:29:18
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The Effective Executive

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“So, the effective executive by Peter Drucker, read that. Read it at least once a year” — Tim Ferriss 01:31:20
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Essentialism

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“Essentialism by Greg McKeown, read that. Highlight it. Highlight it on a Kindle so you can export your highlights” — Tim Ferriss 01:31:54
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The 80/20 Principle

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Oura Ring

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“I have an Eight Sleep right upstairs. I am a huge fan, especially when it's 95-plus degrees outside” — Tim Ferriss 01:13:40
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Lithium orotate (low-dose)

“Low-dose lithium orotate, which I purchase on Amazon. I take 5 mg before bed and if I'm starting to slip... I take 5 milligrams in the morning as well” — Tim Ferriss 01:26:13
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Magnesium threonate

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Apigenin

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